What is Meditation?

Each flower expresses the incomprehensible order of the cosmos
Each flower expresses the incomprehensible order of the cosmos

Most simply, meditation is a process of tuning in to our inner being and silencing the system to bring about a lasting state of peace and happiness. Through meditation and contemplation about it, we experience our original nature as peace. We learn that true happiness must come from within. We learn that what we do matters that we need to have kindness and compassion for all. As we become able to stay calm always, we find a stable and lasting inner peace, regardless of ever changing external conditions and life situations. We become better human beings. It brings us so much that meditation really is the core of the simple yoga life

     Many people's minds are continually in superdrive these days. Families, careers, so much to do just to keep up that everyday feels like being off to the races. Multitasking has become the norm even though it is so far from a normal state of being! It throws our systems out of balance. Meditation refocuses us, slows us down, and reminds us that there is a part of us that is still and is silently witnessing all the racing around. Meditation reminds us of who we really are.

     Let's be clear that meditation is NOT religion. While some religious systems do include meditation as part of their practices (Buddhism, for example), meditation need not be associated with any one path or belief system. All the meditations here are presented without a belief of any external creator of our universe or the beings in it, or of any supreme being who has any control over what happens. Whatever an individual believes is fine and right for that individual, and meditations suggested here are for everyone!

     Technique can be simple. Some ideas for structured meditation practices will be suggested here. But just gazing at the sky, the ocean, a flower, taking a walk in nature, doing yoga asanas or exercise, playing a musical instrument, or painting can all be meditation. Each person needs to try a few different ways to find the ones that suit him or her best. It is not necessary to take a long course or pay lots of money. Often a combination of practices is most effective. 

     Many groups insist that it is essential to sit in a perfect posture, such as lotus, with an erect spine to meditate. The main reason for this is that many people are more likely to fall asleep lying down. Sometimes the purpose of the practice in certain paths is also to raise kundalini energy and so they say the spine needs to be erect. The simple yoga life purpose, however, is to bring out inner peace and happiness. If the meditator wants to practice horizontally, that is more than fine!!

Thoughts Disturbing Meditation

 

You sit down and start to have a peaceful meditation, and all of a sudden... thoughts, LOTS OF THOUGHTS, arise. "I didn't like what he said to me...," "Let me start composing that e-mail right now!....," 'What do I have to get done today...," "What do I need to get at the grocery store...". Meditation forgotten, our mind is excitedly engaged in figuring out whether to buy almonds or pistachios! What to do? There are various techniques. You just have to find what works best for you. Mostly, do not be angry at the thoughts for disturbing. Here are some ideas:

 

1. Accept the thoughts. Acknowledge they are there without becoming attached to them. Return focus to the meditation.

2. Imagine the thoughts passing by as clouds in the sky. Notice them, but let them pass by.

3. Ignore the thoughts. If you saw the movie, A Beautiful MInd, you may remember a scene toward the end when the John Nash character says he still sees the people who aren't real but he just doesn't give them attention any more. Do like that.

4. Focus attention on the midbrow point for a minute, the point often referred to as the third eye. This brings the intellect, mind, and body back into unity.

5. Repeat a mantra several times to refocus. If you are alone, feel free to repeat out loud. Or just repeat to yourself. A common one is 'Om...' You can also make up any mantra you like. For example, you could repeat just one word, such as Love, Peace, Light.